I was not a likely fighter. I was twenty-four, soft, nonathletic and felt pretty uncomfortable in my skin, let alone a boxing ring when I first started Muay Thai. I did, however, have one thing going for me; I was ridiculously disciplined. I would show up to train every day. I worked hard. I did my road work. I didn’t complain (much). This discipline was enough to develop skills and techniques that would make me a good fighter. But that was it, I was just okay, not champion material yet. To be great, to be a champion and a professional I needed one more quality – Conviction. The conviction for me took time to develop. Due to my lack of previous athletic skills I was used to seeing myself as the same girl that was picked last in dodgeball and who sat the bench at varsity basketball games. These views of yourself take time to change, but eventually with enough hard work, self-discovery and winning fights my confidence improved. I started to go into the ring thinking, “I got this!”, instead of “What the fuck am I doing in here?”
There are three qualities that make a great fighter:
Discipline, skill, and conviction.
Now that I coach fighters I find I am often thinking about these three qualities. In my opinion to be a champion you must excel at all three. Of course, desire is the fourth that all fighters must have, but I leave that out, as it’s evident that the desire must be present or the fighter won’t even want to fight.
There are some good fighters out there that excel at just two of the above three qualities and are merely average or sub-par in the third. They can skirt by for a while, but eventually, they get beaten by those that have mastered all three as they rise the ranks.